Monday Lunch with the Cousins

So much has changed since the lock down days of the pandemic. Plenty not so good, but one decent aspect that has seemed to emerged from that dark time is that people’s schedules are a bit more fluid. Work from home or hybrid schedules allow for some unusual flexibility. And so it was that enabled us to host our cousins for lunch on a Monday. Yup, right at the start of a work week. If anything is going to shake the Monday blues out of you, hosting loved ones is a sure fire way. The main reason for their dropping by was to visit my parents. Yes, this on the heels of my cousins, Therese and Tom, visiting them the Friday before (as noted in my last post). Back to back visits for my parents meant the same for us.

Just a little side note. My dad vowed he would never move to Westchester due to narrow roads, cold weather and missing Long Island and all their neighbors. This idea always struck me as funny, as if the traffic on the LIE is so much more desirable than narrow roads. Or the weather is that much colder than Long Island’s wet winds coming off the water. Sure we are a tad bit north but not the North Pole! And missing people? HA, they have had more visitors in 6 months than they had in years.

Anyway, much like with my other cousins, we thought it would be nice if after their visit they could bring my parents over to our house for an outdoor lunch. As luck would have it, my imagined al fresco moment was dampened by rain. That said, I must admit that the indoor dining switch-aroo wound up being a better scenario for the group. We ate the appetizers and the meal all at the same table which was easier that shifting all over the place.

The beauty of back to back entertaining is that I was able to repurpose part of the table from our Friday Night Dinner, with some minor tweaks to make it casual lunch style. I also had some food surplus, so a few items reappeared from Friday night’s event.

Kept the table setting simple by using big cotton napkins as placemats.

For the table, I simply removed one runner and flipped the other lengthwise down the table. The flowers were still holding on, so they made a repeat performance. Instead of regular placemats, I used cotton napkins and folded the top and bottom edges in to create an elongated shape. As you can see, I didn’t have time to iron. It kinda pisses me off looking at this photo and noticing the creasing but I’m getting over it. Our guests were appreciative of the effort, so I guess I can let the wrinkles go. We are so fortunate to have such a wonderful family. Both sides, all sides, from every angle are full of loving, and thoughtful people. So spending the day together is not just a treat, it’s a blessing. And when you love people, you try to make food that reflects the same. As I said, I tried to repurpose as much as possible. That goes for the menu to. Here’s what I served:

Appetizers

• Marinated Artichoke Hearts (store bought but with homemade herb/garlic oil)

• Fennel with Extra Virgin Olive Oil & Course Salt/Pepper

• Smoked Salmon/Cream Cheese Rolls on Cucumber Rounds

• White Bean Dip with crudité (same as for the Friday night dinner)

• Marinated Wild Mushrooms (store bought from Italian Specialty shop)

Main Meal

• Oven Roasted Vegetables (Eggplant, Zucchini, Peppers, Onions, Tomatoes)

  • Cut vegetables into thick slices, season with salt/pepper and slight drizzle of olive oil (do not over oil them or they will be soggy instead of roasted.) Roast at 400 degrees flipping once.until browned.

• Marinated Feta

• Homemade Focaccia

  • I just started making my own. There are the two recipes I follow on Instagram. One is for overnight proving. The other is for same day, which is the one I used. Please be aware that the chef in the below link curses a lot, and I mean alot.

  • Tastelessbaker : same day foccaccia

• Summer Pasta Salad

  • Like me, these are pasta people. But it was summer so a salad versus a hot dish was called for. I just threw together what I had in the house and made an herb/garlic oil dressing. I used pasta shells, cucumber, chick peas, grape tomatoes, red onion and tossed it all together. Important part is to cut the vegetables to bite size pieces.

• Pork Belly Roast: This one is all Juancarlos. I will try to explain what he did best I can.

  • Skin side up score the skin through the fat but not into the meat. Flip it over to meat side to fill.

  • Create a filling of chopped herbs, garlic, oil and spread it onto the meat side.

  • Roll it up and tie with cooking string, and rub with oil, salt and pepper.

  • In a roasting pan, place onion halves and whole carrots for pork to sit on.

  • Roast at 425 degrees for 1/2 hour then turn oven down to 350 for another 2 hours, depending on the size of pork. Roughly, 20-25 minutes per pound.

    Here is another way of cooking Pork Belly that isn’t rolled.

Dessert

• Cream Puffs (exquisitely made by my cousin, Gina)

• Homemade Ice Cream Sandwiches

If you have ever had Monday-itis, and aren’t quite ready to start the work week, might I suggest that
you block off time on your google work calendar, rearrange your schedule and book in a lunch with family or friends that you love. I highly recommend it.

A Monday completely stirred with LOVE.

Shrimp & Fennel Lunch with a Friend - Casual Style Take 2

When I first starting writing this post, it was pre COVID-19 pandemic, and clearly my, and everyone else’s work life was significantly different. Also, our socializing style was absolutely different. That said, the premise behind what I originally wrote still remains the same; enjoying lunch with a friend. And so, let me continue on the thought and pleasure of sharing time with people you love - Take 2. And here’s to dreaming about the time when there will be a Take 3, 4 and beyond.

When you have your own company, and consult, it often times means you can create your own schedule. Work when others play, and play when others work. It creates an environment where you can be available for whatever opportunity lands on your doorstep. Work-Play balance is so important. I have never taken this for granted, and now more than ever I truly appreciate its freedom. I fully realize that many people do not readily have the ability to take a leisurely lunch with a friend mid week. But my work life affords me some awesome flexibility. So when my friend Donna, who is an ESL teacher, was going to be in my neighborhood, it was only natural that we lunch, as we have in the past. Now with the current pandemic situation, all of our work lives have been altered, and maybe it affords you a more flexible schedule and freedom as well. If it is, I highly recommend taking fully advantage. It is such a luxurious way to spend an afternoon; sharing a meal, a glass of wine and catching up time with a friend I adore.

Sure, one glass of wine at lunch can’t hurt. Especially when you start with a hearty bowl of Cauliflower Soup.

For this meal, I wanted to try out a recipe idea I had seen from Ina Garten. Her food and entertaining style are very similar to mine. (PS I didn’t copy her style. I discovered her long after my entertaining and cooking style was embedded in my heart.) I absolutely adore her!

JC and I love sautéing shrimp and getting a good sear on them, and so our go to method is usually cooking them in a cast iron pan to get a nice texture. But she cooked the shrimp in fennel which made them a bit softer in texture. I love fennel and I love shrimp. And so does Donna. That added up to - let’s give it a try. Since I was making this on the fly, and wasn’t actually thinking of sharing this on the blog, I didn’t measure anything (as is my typical style). However, Donna loved it so much and wanted to recreate it for her guests the following weekend, I had to come up with approximate measurements from my mind’s eye. I know you probably think that is an odd thing to say, but I can see and guestimate how much I’ve cut of an ingredient. And that is what I did went I sent Donna my approximations. I changed Ina’s recipe a bit to make it more my own.

Our Lunch Menu

A plate full of love. Polenta topped with the shrimp, tomato & fennel plus roasted root veggies topped with Marinated Feta.

Faux Creamy Cauliflower Soup
Green Salad
Roasted Carrots, Onions & Parsnips with Marinated Feta
Creamy Polenta
Shrimp with Fennel & Tomatoes, see below
Homemade Coffee Ice Cream

Creamy Polenta

Big Green Salad and Marinated Feta

Ingredients

1.5 lb shrimp
1 fennel bulb, cut in small pieces
4 large cloves of garlic, crushed
1.5 -2 c grape & heirloom cherry tomatoes
1/4 c parsley, chopped
1/8 c fennel fronds, chopped
pinch of red pepper flakes
1/3 c white wine
Magic 3 (salt, pepper, olive oil)

Instructions

1. Using about 1/4 c olive oil, sauté fennel until slightly softened.

2. Add the tomatoes, salt and black pepper and let cook down.

3. Then add the garlic and red pepper flakes and let cook for 5-7 minutes over medium low heat so not to burn the garlic.

4. Salt and pepper the shrimp, then add them into the pan cooking for about 2-3 minutes.

5. Add the wine and turn the shrimp over and cook until done.

6. Add the parsley and fennel fronds.

Cook the fennel and tomatoes down until the are softened. Then add the garlic and red pepper flakes.

Add the shrimp and wine and let cook for 3-4 minutes.

It is such a lovely combo of flavors.

I served this with polenta, but it plays just as nicely with rice or pasta.

A great way to start the lunch; warm soup and crisp white wine.

Since my creamy cauliflower soup is so easy to make, I whipped up a batch and we started with that.

For the vegetables, I just roasted heirloom carrots, parsnips and onions at 425 degrees until nicely caramelized.

The feta mixture is easy to make. All it entails is cutting up some herbs and aromatics, stirring it together and then pouring it over feta cheese. Next step: spread it on everything!!

Marinated Feta

Now that is a lunch made with love.

We finished the meal with some of my homemade coffee ice cream. Donna loved that too. It’s so easy to please a food lover. Just make yummy things and stir it with love. That’s how you create a ‘school day’ memory with a good friend.

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Monday Night Dinner - Shared with Friends

In today’s world of hustle and bustle, technology and device driven social contact, there is one aspect (well, probably many) of our new reality that makes me truly long for days of yore.
Connection. Real, soulful, personal connection.
I miss those times when getting together with loved ones was easy, almost expected on a regular basis. When weekends were spent visiting friends and family, and not traveling in a car for hours to watch a little league, or spent in front of a computer trying to catch up on work. Nowadays, it takes calendars, a team of coordinators, pie charts and graphs and law firm to find a date that matches up for everyone. When I was younger, we had our midday meal at my grandmother’s house every Sunday in Brooklyn. It was known and expected and it was a comfort and joy to gather all together. When we moved out to Long Island, everyone then drove out to us for the day. We were a family, and friends were always welcome to join.

I long for those days. I’m not saying every Sunday but I do yearn for time spent enjoying a meal with people I love in a chill atmosphere just so we can catch up. I fully recognize some of the reasons why this has become difficult. People move further away from one another. Jobs and schedules are more demanding. Kids have extracurricular activities that require more time and attention. But I guess this new paradigm of life is what irks me. We put so much more emphasis on things that cause us stress, and less on carving out time to hang with people we care about. I know I might get some backlash about the kids’ activity portion. It brings joy, etc. But when did sports and violin practice consume 75% of a kids free time? When do they have time to socialize and be kids? Now, that is a whole other topic. But, you all get where I’m going.

So given that long diatribe, it completely warmed my heart that when my friend Tecla’s dad was back in NYC visiting from Tuscany, JuanCarlos and I were top of his list to visit. High on the list!! We were tickled Parmesano Reggiano. We made a date for a Monday night and as we were deciding where to meet, it was a no brainer to invite them to our home. Unfortunately, our dear friend Scott, Tecla’s hubby, was unable to join us, and he was missed.

A simple meal is all that’s needed, since the purpose of the visit was spending time together. We did add an appetizer and soup because we wanted the evening to last longer. More time requires more food. Well, at least that’s my thinking.

Here is what we served, and the elegant, simple table setting we served it on.

Appetizer & Soup

Eggplant rounds with roasted tomato & goat cheese

Sliced eggplant dusted with flour, quick sauté, then placed on a baking. Top each one with a spoonful of roasted tomatoes (sauce), a dollop of goat cheese, some thyme leaves and drizzle of olive oil. Bake until cheese melts.

Seafood Soup

This is the perfect starter on cold night. A light fish broth chock full of shrimp, monkfish, calamari and beans.

Simply sauté garlic, onions and parsley. Stir in cannellini beans to add a bit heartiness. Then add fish stock and bring to low rolling boil and add the fish. Cover and lower to a simmer until the fish is cooked through.

The same wine we enjoyed with Tecla’s dad in Italy on a visit to the winery. Perfect with the pork and the cake!

Main Course
Pork Roast
Oven roasted Heirloom Carrots
Oven roasted Butternut Squash with Brown Butter Sage
Quinoa with scallions

Photo credit: Tecla Palli-Sandler

Cinque colore salad with oil cured olives

I’ve taken the traditional tri-colore salad and amped it up with a few more colors by way of citrus fruits and oil cured olives. I used both the juices from the grapefruit and oranges then added lemon, lime and zest whisked with olive oil, salt, pepper for the dressing. Fresh, bitter, sweet, sour, peppery. This hit all the right notes.

Dessert
Gluten Free, Dairy/Egg free chocolate tart. This is not my recipe. Nor did I make it exactly as the recipe stated, but this came out chocolatey, rich and delicious. I made a slightly altered version of Brandi’s Chocolate Espresso Fudge Cake. I didn’t have chocolate to shave over top so I created my own decoration with a random almond sliver swirl. I must have been channeling crop circles.

Table Setting & Decor
It was a Monday night so there was not a ton of time for a formal table setting. It was more of a last minute task. So no time for ironing meant no tablecloth, and a need to display a napkin that no one would notice the wrinkles. Deep green colored velvet placemats kept with a winter warm theme. White dishes and gold charger popped nicely off the deep color mats and made it feel rich and elegant, but not pretentious. Just the right touch to make our guests feel special, yet not a lot work for me.

The heartiness of my cabbage floral arrangement, plus elements from my Fall themed arrangement lasted long enough for me to arrange them at the end of the table with some candles to warm up the setting.

Table setting with green velvet placemats, gold chargers, white plates and a soup bowl with gold trim.

There is nothing more satisfying than making a meal that nourishes the body and the soul, and sharing it!

Tecla and her dad, Paolo serving up food stirred with love.

JuanCarlos talking about the state of… If you want to know, you’ll have to join us for dinner.

We had such a great night. We all love food, travel, family, and living life richly. So conversation was a flow as we enjoyed a simple meal together. Cherishing the time we each carved out for one another in our busy schedules, and realizing that anything worth enjoying takes a little effort. I’m glad we all made the effort. And even happier that we were on Paolo’s list during his short visit. Our turn next… in Italy!!

I hope that with all the rush of the holidays you, too, can carve our time in your schedules to share a meal, laughter and love with the people you love. Dig in, fork first!

Paolo, aka Babbo, digging into chocolate heaven.

Ciao 2017 - A Year that Warmed My Heart

Another year.  Another 365 days of "what did I do with all that time?"  I do recall many moons ago an older person said to me that time goes by faster when you are older.  I didn't quite get it, but now that I am older, I see that it is true.  But I still don't get it. Time flies by quicker now. But how? But why?  Is it because as adults we wish for the weekends to come so we can have some rest? Only to find out that we have cleaning and laundry, errands and bills to attend to.  Is that why time blows past us?  Who knows, except, here it is the end of 2017 and I am still wondering what happened to March!!  What have I done with all that time?

I have accomplished some things but will readily admit that I wasted too much time.  2018 will be about making more of each moment. Well, that was the goal of 2017, so wish me luck... again.

As the year comes to a close some of you will host big parties.  Great.  But if you are like me, and don't make such a huge deal out of New Year's Eve, or feel pressure to do something, or maybe you feel sad because nothing special is happening.   Please remember it's just another night like the one before it and the one after it.  You can choose to how to honor it or not. You can use it to ump start a fresh beginning. But if you don't have big plans, so what.  You can do what JC and I like to do.  Sit quietly, rejoice in what we have now and make a list of our wishes  for the coming year. Without pressure but just gentle reminders of what we would like to reach for.

As we wrap this year, that was filled with tons of emotion for most of us, let me share some moments of just how lovely a year can be.  (Lots of photos, so keep scrolling for another message from me.)

January
Shared time with my sister Jill and nieces, Nikki and Gabrielle, as we cooked together making the original "something from nothing" recipe, Zucchini Orzo Pie and an old family tradition, stuffed breads.

February
Starting the month with an invite from our family friends, the Marzullos, to kick start a month of eating well.
Celebrated my birthday with my parents in Miami showing them cool restaurants for them to visit, like Prohibition. Then back home to celebrate another Pisces birthday with my 'niece', Lauren, serving up a traditional Spanish tapas lunch.

March
Stirring it with love with Gabrielle at her workplace, Traditions, in Charlotte, NC promoting my Think...then Jump™ children's book series and reading to the kids. Back home, taking in nature with a walk through our favorite local spot, Rockefeller Park.

April
Another trip to Italy, because... Well, it's Italy and you can never get enough. And let's not forget this is the land of beauty, love and of course...pasta.  All things I hold dear.

My own fresh pasta made in the Tuscan Hills.  Recipe here

My hubby, falling in love with Cortona in the Tuscan region of Italy.

May
JC's birthday, celebrated as usual with good food and wine.

Cucumber, radish, mint salad

Roasted pork loin

Roasted fennel, peppers, onions

June
A full month of gatherings with family and friends, both in NY and Miami.  

Us and the Nardolillo Family.  Finally, after many dates were thrown around, we found one in June!

Always love visiting Miami for sun and the warming of my soul.

Miami gang,  Marta and Me with JC to celebrate Emilce's Birthday.

Krista and Me.  I babysat for her.  Yes, I did and now she is getting married!

July
Spent the 4th sharing good times, good food and good fun with dear friends Emily and Lorne at their Bay home.

Rocked a successful event aboard a NYC nighttime cruise that Despaña co-sponsored.  Boy, was I tired after that one.

A NYC visit from my bestie, Dominique, ending a perfect  girl's day with her daughter, Lauren.

Despaña Gang AKA Chicas Poderosas = Powerful Girls!

Dominique and Lauren. Don't you love those smiles!

August
Too many photos to even think about sharing from our trip to Northern Spain, but the highlight was spending time with our dear friends, Marcos and Angelica, at their home in Amieva, Asturias.

Amieva, a beautiful view

Marcos, Angelica and JC

Angelica and me

September
How do you celebrate fall with Cuban in-laws?  Roast a pig.
How do you celebrate a friend's birthday? Call and say "I'm coming over with food and cake!"

How do you celebrate a life? By honoring it with memories, laughter and love. Sharing as a family a most beautiful memorial to rejoice in life of my dear Aunt Catherine.

Porky the pig in La Caja China, the Chinese roasting box

I made a gluten free cake to celebrate Carl's birthday.

Alla familia

Aunt Catherine's favorite hat and her corn cob pipe.  No button nose here.

October
Thanks to my sis, Alys and Mastercard, we got to visit the Chiluly exhibit at the NY Botanical Gardens. 

Then had a wild production experience as Team Despaña, Angelica and Master Carver Jaume Guerra were slicing up jamón on The Untitled Action Bronson Show appearing on Viceland TV.

Angelica & Jaume showing how it's done.

Action Bronson checking out the jamón

November
NYC Marathon with my amazing sis, Alys.

Stats that make her cream of the crop.

Family support after 26.2 miles.  Ready for a meal.

December
That time of year when spending time with flour, butter and sugar is how I pass my time, baking up a storm. Thankfully, I had one brave soul to help me, my niece, Gianna to the rescue.

Gianna, directly home from college and before seeing friends, helped me make cookies... all day.

I also had to say ciao for now to my nephew, John, as he moved away to Colorado.

So as we close the books on 2017, I wish for you all the health and love life has to offer... And there is an abundance of it. There truly is no end to that well.  You can continue to tap it and unearth it's riches.

May you find the path you were searching for.

May the passions you dream of become realities.

May the struggles you have be released and resolved.

May good friends, good food find their way into your home.

May each day bring a wonderful mixture of laughter and smiles, inner peace and joy, satisfaction and accomplishment, confidence and strength.

May you step closer to knowing and loving your true self and rejoice in your essence.

I wish all these and so much more for you.

Happy New Year

Lunch with a Friend - Casual with Style

My dear friend, Donna, and I had been trying to make plans to get together for months. We had set a date to meet in the city for lunch, but alas those plans got axed.  Once we switched the day, it meant she was able to come up to my house for a 'ladies lunch'.  Does that make us sound old?  If so, then forget it.  We were just eating together.

It had been a while since we had last seen each other, so the idea was to enjoy each other's company and not have cooking occupy my time. The plan to keep it easy peasy was to create a menu where the majority of items could all be roasted in the oven and the rest could be made ahead of time.  Leaving me hands free for when she arrived.  I like starch (pasta, potatoes, rice not the kind used for ironing), and wanted to include that too. My immediate thought was polenta. However, after surveying the menu, a last minute swap out for rice felt like it paired better with the rest of the offerings, which also included a salad.  When it came to dessert, this needed to be super simple because I didn't have the time to bake.  Add to that, I wanted something that I could enjoy too. A traditionally baked item uses flour and eggs, well, no good for me. 

Sure sandwiches would have been even easier. Sure we could have eaten at the kitchen table.  But a little extra detail is much nicer. And so...

How hard is it to keep it casual but amp it a bit to feel special?  Simply throw down a runner the opposite way to create an more intimate area on a large table, add some placemats. Toss cloth napkins on the plate and put glasses on the table.  That always ups the ante, and really it doesn't take more effort than that.

So when you want to keep it chill yet with touch of style for no fuss lunch, here's a menu that can be pulled off without a hitch. The best part of this for me was that since it was pouring out and despise schlepping in the rain, I already had everything in the house, and didn't even need to shop!!  

Prep everything in their pans, season right before putting in the oven and have a glass of wine.

If you need some recipes guides for the below menu, the highlighted items link to previous blog posts that feature each one. Also at the very bottom, you will find printable recipe versions.  If you have any questions on how to pull this menu off, write a comment below or email me

Lunch Menu

• Roasted Salmon

• Roasted Broccoli, Red Onions & Fennel

• Paella Rice Risotto style with caramelized red, yellow onion and scallions (see below)

• Citrus Salad

• Fresh Fruit "Bark" (see below)

Simply roasted salmon nestled up against beautiful roasted vegetables all on one plate.

Paella rice risotto style with 3 kinds of onions (red, yellow and scallions)

For the Paella Rice Risotto style, first sauté a mixture of red, yellow onion and scallion until caramelized.  Set aside. In a medium sized pot, simply sauté some more onions in oil, salt and pepper then add the rice to toast it. Then add either hot water or hot stock (chicken or vegetable) a few ladles at a time until the rice absorbs the liquid. Continue until the rice is tender then stir in the sautéd onion mixture. 

Another option, you can check out my Garlic Rice recipe.

You know this salad. This is the Citrus Salad Bowl, but in one big bowl not individually plated. This way we could go back for seconds.

The skinny on how the dessert portion was pulled together with just a few ingredients: Open the fridge. Check out what you have and use your imagination.  I found strawberries and blueberries, and tucked in the back a tiny bit of left over chocolate ganache* (previously used for some profiteroles I had made).  And just like that I had a dessert.  Fresh Fruit Bark.

* Ganache is chocolate melted down by adding warmed cream to create a glaze .  When I originally made mine I used much less cream since I wanted a thicker consistency for the profiteroles.  If I had a traditional ganache, it would have never worked for this dessert.  

Spread the chocolate onto parchment paper.

Instructions

I melted down the chocolate, spread it over parchment and jammed, I mean lovingly placed, the fruit into the chocolate. For texture, I sprinkled some crushed Marcona Almonds and popped it in the fridge to set and chill until time to serve. 

Arrange the fruit in a way that is appetizing to you.

Since this was made with a semi ganache, it had a softer consistency than traditional bark.  That didn't bother either one of us, and the fresh fruit route was the perfect choice since Donna prefers fresh versus dried fruit. Phew, good call on my part.  This literally was the truest form of 'something from nothing', pulling a dessert out of the hat from whatever I had handy.  We both agreed it was quite delicious.  Bigger bonus, it gave her a new way to use up all the gorgeous summer fruit she gets at her country house.  

Starting with the lovely Shinn Estates Rosé that Donna brought, we had a relaxing time, ate well, caught up on each other's lives and travels, enjoyed a surprise yummy dessert, and of course, finished the entire bottle of wine. It ended as a perfect Lunch with a Friend.  

Sprinkle chopped Marcona Almonds all over the top.

Salmon/Vegetable Printable Recipe
Paella Rice Risotto Style Printable Recipe
Garlic Rice Printable Recipe
Citrus Salad Bowl Printable Recipe
Fresh Fruit "Bark Printable Recipe