New Year's Eve - A Private Party

This was way back when pressing our heads together was a natural, safe thing to do.

Ok, Christmas down. Onto New Year’s Eve. And just as with these past few holidays this year, some adjustments might be required. Smaller gatherings, more intimate, less in your face screaming, yelling, raucous partying to ring in the New Year. Who am I kidding? I have never done that. New Year’s Eve or any other eve, raucous partying just isn’t my scene. Which is why two years ago before the shit hit the fan, we invited our dear friends, Tecla and Scott, to enjoy a quiet, food filled festivity to usher in the New Year. Happily they agreed, and we had the most fabulous time. They stayed the night and then we continued to fill our bellies with brunch the next day. This is how I love spending time. Intimate, one on one, quiet gatherings so that the conversation can be meaningful and intended, and not having to jump from guest to guest. Who knew that New Year’s Eve 2019 would be practice for the small gathering existence we have been living for the past two years.

This year, as with last, JuanCarlos and I will spend it alone by the fire, together counting our blessings, feeling grateful for how safe we are able to remain in our home, working at careers we both love that afford us comfort, security, health and joy. And we can reminisce of celebrations past, and dream of the next New Year Eve’s that we can spend with our friends and family.

If you are able to gather safely with loved ones this year and need some entertaining ideas, here’s a jog down memory lane of what we served that evening. The time when we thought 2020 would be a year of clear vision. Well, it certainly did open our eyes, just maybe not realizing what we would see.

On to the offerings. Tecla and Scott are such joys to be with. Salt of the earth types that are just darn good people. They appreciate good food and wine, and good conversation and laughs. It’s always such a treat spending quality time with them. Clearly, you can see that Tecla is the life of the partying. She wore a boa!

Me, Tecla and JuanCarlos. Scott was taking the picture. Photo Credit: Scott

We decided to start the party in the kitchen, which we never used to do since our kitchen had some serious circulation issues. But months before we completed a small refresh in the kitchen that helped the flow and allowed us the ability to sit around the center island/table. So, we began with a few starters there.

Removing the island that was originally attached to the wall and centering it completely modified the kitchen’s functionality. Now we can host in the kitchen. So we did. Just for appetizers. Photo Credit: Tecla

• Burrata with Heirloom Tomatoes

• Crabmeat Cocktail (Lump Crabmeat with diced red pepper, avocado, cilantro and lemon juice)

• Carrot Ginger Soup

Crabmeat cocktail. You can swap out the crabmeat for shrimp.
Photo Credit: Tecla

JuanCarlos engaging in some sort of deep discussion.
Photo Credit: Tecla

Simplicity of ingredients. When you use the freshest, best quality, that’s all you need. Photo Credit: Tecla

Carrot, Ginger, Coconut Milk Soup is so soothing and a perfect way to start a meal. Photo Credit: Tecla

Then we had dinner in the formal dining room. Personally I am a fan of a separate dining room, and not of the open concept craze. I could explain in depth why I feel so strongly on this topic, but better to save that for another time. Back to business.

I was pleased with the winter wonderland feeling of the ivory tablecloth peppered with cranberry colored velvet place mats and hunter green napkins corralled by gold tasseled napkin rings for a touch of elegance. Small floral arrangements of the same color scheme balanced out the table with candle lights everywhere for a warm glow. Plus the magnificent flowers that Tecla and Scott brought was a perfect addition.

I had made small floral arrangements but Tecla and Scott brought this amazing floral bouquet to adorn the table. It was stunning and perfectly complimented my table setting color scheme. Photo Credit: Tecla

Dinner consisted of:

• Pappardelle with Osso Buco

• Sauteéd Shrimp

• Roasted Beets

• Marinated Feta

• Butter Lettuce Salad with Parsley Leaves & Sliced Pears

Osso Buco is rich and decadent. Sauteéd shrimp with lots of garlic and herbs are always so satisfying, and easy to make. Photo Credit: Tecla

Seriously, is there anything better than a steaming bowl of pasta? NOTHING Photo Credit: Tecla

Let’s eat. Photo Credit: Tecla

Then we had dessert and after dinner drinks by the fire in the living room. I love moving around and utilizing as much of our home as possible to entertain. I think it keeps the evening interesting and you can create separate environments for each stage.

Our large Indonesian coffee table has been the ideal landing spot for appetizers, dinner or desserts.

Dessert was simple and easy. I made a variety of flavors of homemade ice creams, homemade Christmas cookies, our Italian family tradition, Struffoli. What is really interesting is that Tecla was born and raised in Florence Italy. One year I sent her struffoli for the holidays thinking that she would enjoy an old Italian tradition. Much to my surprise these were not part of her holiday tradition. My grandmother was from Salerno, in the south, near Naples. Food and traditions are quite different from region to region. Yet, somehow it doesn’t matter north, south, east or west, tradition or not, once you try struffoli they will become part of your new tradition.

Stuffoli: fried dough balls soaked in honey. What’s not to love?

Not fancy, just scooping out homemade ice creams.
Photo Credit: Tecla

Traditional Christmas Cookies

The next morning, I utilized much of the previous night’s table setting to serve brunch. I had pre-made most of the items a day or two before, so it was mostly a matter of placing everything out for us to enjoy.

• Homemade Crunchin’ Coconut & Seed Granola

• Greek Yogurt

• Assorted Cheeses, Grapes & Tangerines

• Leek & Onion Goat Cheese Tart

• Tortilla Española

• Citrus Fruit & Berry Cocktail

• Bagels & Smoked Salmon & Scallion Cream Cheese

• Sliced Heirloom Tomatoes, Cucumbers & Red Onion

When you are hosting a brunch for overnight guests, it’s important to think the menu through so you aren’t overloading yourself with having to prepare too much. Buying some items that require nothing more than placing them on a plate or bowl mixed with homemade items that can be prepared well in advance is the stress free way to go. A Tortilla Española is perfect method to serve up eggs and potatoes without being a short order cook. A Leek & Onion Goat Cheese Tart provides another warm, rich dish that compliments everything else. Both these can easily be made a few days ahead. I am always making my Crunchin’ Coconut & Seed Granola for customers, so that was readily on hand.

Tecla enjoying a few morning treats and good dose of coffee. A bountiful table that had a wide assortment from which to choose.

Alright, maybe we did cheer a little bit. Photo Credit: Tecla

We had so much fun that night. When I look at these images now I am filled with two contrasting emotions. One of sadness at the thought of how clueless we were about the hell storm that was about to besiege us. Two, of great joy and pure gratitude for being able to spend such a wonderful time together. And for the sheer, carefree feeling we all felt that evening. I look to these photos and envision the day when that kind of untroubled, happy-go-lucky, merriment can enjoyed again.

Wishing you all health, health and health for that is the greatest wealth of all. And love.

The evening sealed with a kiss, and a promise of more to love to come.

Napkin Folding - A Few Festive Ideas

Ok, here we are on the heels of Thanksgiving and more festivities are rushing our way. I know what you are going to say. It’s the same time period every year. Yet somehow it feels like the time between the two holidays gets shorter and shorter. So, if you are one of the lucky ones that’s been tapped twice for hosting duties, bless you, and you may need some new entertaining tricks.

Since I have noticed that one of the most highly viewed posts on my blog is Napkin Folding - 5 Basic Folds - Countless Options, I figured that might be where a few fresh ideas are needed. That post seems to really resonate with readers around the world, and I hope it continues to provide simple yet pretty options for your table settings. But if you’ve already used up those ideas, a bunch of festive options might come in handy right about now.

This post isn’t as extension as the previous. I didn’t show all the ways you can modify or adorn each one. And I didn’t show perfectly finished place settings, but I did give you a little something extra.
Video demonstrations to show exactly how to fold each one, plus bullet point step by step instructions.

Cue the video tape!

Let’s start with the most obvious festive fold for the season…

The Christmas Tree

I used a deep forest green square napkin. Of course, you can use whatever color you want, the tree shape is clear but green drives the theme home.

• Fold in half, and in half again to create a smaller square.

• Fold back the first open edge up towards the top of the triangle point of the napkin.

• Continue to fold up each open edge to create layers.

• Turn the napkin over and fold the sides inward toward the bottom edge

• Flip back over, making any tiny adjustments, and add a decorative topper. Or just leave it as a plain tree is just fine, too.

The Holiday Wreath

I used an orange and green plaid napkin. I felt it gave more visual interest as a wreath. Of course, you can use whatever color you want, but I recommend a multicolored option to add to the affect.

• Accordion fold the napkin.

• Holding one end, twist the folded napkin all the way to the next end.

• Pull one end through a napkin ring letting the edges stick out.

• Tuck the other end into the ring.

• Adjust so it’s round and add a decorative element.

The Poinsettia

For this one, I like using a napkin that has a border to help create more of a flower petal effect. But if you don’t have napkins like that it’s fine. The shape is unmistakably flower-like. Back in my catering days we used this folding method to create decorative liners for bread baskets. I figured why not make a bold statement at each place setting with this fold that is reminiscent of large Poinsettia petals.

• With right side down, fold each corner into the center to create a smaller square.

• Holding the center together, flip the napkin over and fold each point into the center creating an even smaller square. I find flipping it right onto the plate makes it easier so the shape remains beautiful without having to move it.

• Then holding the center points, pull the under fold out and up to create a petal. Repeat for each corner.

• Simply placed on the center of the plate it creates a big, bold statement.

The Menu Envelope

Some of us go all out and actually print out a menu. Instead of just placing the menu on the plate, why not conceal it within a napkin envelope. And for those who think printing up a menu is overkill, reconsider for these top three reasons.

1. It informs your guests of the glorious meal that awaits them

2. It shows you took the time to curate the menu.

3. It creates a pretty keepsake for you and your guests.

Onto the fold. Use a square napkin, color of your choice. I chose white for a traditional envelope feel, here’s how it goes.

• Fold in half, and half again to create a smaller square.

• Place the folded corner edge at the top, then place your menu in the center

• Fold the side corners in over the sides of the menu

• Fold the bottom triangle edge up towards the middle and tuck the top edge under to reveal the top of the menu

• Fold the top triangle down to close the envelope, and adorn with a decorative pop of color or a sprig of rosemary

You can also leave the menu out placed on top of the envelope.

The Fountain Burst

You can use any color napkin. I chose one with a dainty border to impart a fringe edge.

• Fold in half, and then accordion fold the entire napkin.

• Pull the bottom of the napkin through a napkin ring. (If you don’t have a napkin ring, you can cut paper towel tubes into rings. Since it will be covered for the finished result it’s not crucial that you use some pretty napkin ring. You can even use ribbon to tie it.)

• Pull the napkin through 1/3 the way up, then tuck the bottom edges up and into the ring, covering it completely.

• Place onto the plate and fan out the top portion to create a fountain burst across the entire plate.

Or you can leave the bottom untucked and let it fan out on the bottom as well. That’s pretty too!

I hope the videos helped to demonstrate how fairly easy these are to pull off. This was my first video demonstration, so please be kind with your comments, but any and all feedback is always welcomed. I’m learning as I go to help give you a more visual representation of my work. Lastly, my apologies that these weren’t in full table set ups, but I know that your imaginations and creativity will bring the entire table setting together. Just in case you need a head start, here are a few suggestions:

Take cues from the napkin theme you choose to inform your table design. For example, if using a Christmas tree napkin, keep the centerpiece simple by laying down some greens and adding votive candles as a table runner.

Same goes for the Holiday wreath. Maybe twist greens into a circle and place the votives in the center to mimic the wreaths.

I hope these napkin folds help bring cheer to your holiday table.

May you have a safe, healthy and joyous Christmas

May the New Year usher in a true sense of health and well being for all of human kind.

Blessings!

Thanksgiving Reminders, Appetizers & More

This year’s Thanksgiving celebration is already looking different from last year’s as people are venturing out and gathering more. As we all get our sea legs back for entertaining and hosting bigger gatherings, I thought you might need some fresh ideas or reminders on how the heck to throw a party. I know if I were hosting this year, which I am not, I would need to retrain my brain on what I should be doing and when.

This post will be a compilation of older posts to help you access info in a pinch. It’s going to be chock full, so snuggle up with warm cup of tea, or a bottle of scotch, and notebook in hand. I also figured that everyone prepares the main meal their own way and has tons of turkey, stuffing, mashed potato recipes already at hand. You don’t need me for those. But maybe you need some ideas in these other areas.

Hosting Tips & Prep Ideas | Table settings | Napkin Folding | Florals | Appetizers | Salads

Start your engines and prep, prep, prep.

While you’re prepping, grab a glass of vino and chill.

Let’s start at the very beginning, a very good place to start.

List Making and Prep

I can’t stress this part enough. Whether you handwrite, type or send voice memos to yourself, the important thing is to make a list, and keep organized. Especially with Thanksgiving because there are so many moving parts. As you can see, sometimes I handwrite, sometimes I type it out nicely in bullet points but I ALWAYS have a list.

Clearly without typing and spellcheck errors are made.

Sure this list may not be for Thanksgiving but it serves the point of always making a list.

The below link was originally written with Christmas in mind, and so some of the references point in that direction. However, it definitely has tips for general holiday hosting, as well as a good refresher for Christmas, which quite frankly is just around the corner. Skim through the post to find what you need, or take the time to digest it in its entirety. It might help get you ready for large consumption on Turkey day. Ha!

Holiday Hosting Tips - Less Stress

Table Settings

Now once you have figured out your menu, guest list and overall game plan it’s time to focus on the table setting. I know I’ve said it before, but it warrants repeating, especially now as we re-welcome our loved ones back into our homes in larger groups. Setting a welcoming table sets the tone. It doesn’t have to be glammed out it just needs some love. Even the slightest of care taken to enhance the table shows your guests how special they are. The below links give a variety of ideas from the casual to the elegant. No excuses, just do it!

Create a mood

Burst of Burnt Orange - A Fall Landscape

The below link is the mother load of table settings and floral ideas for a special fall occasion.

Thanksgiving Table Settings - Casual to Elegant

Florals

I get it, some you might think flowers are a waste. But gosh darn, they do bring a smile when you enter a room. I know for a fact that you don’t have to be creative to make a great floral display. A while back one of my mom’s friends helped me to organize a luncheon for their group. When I asked if she could arrange the flowers she quickly replied, Oh, I am not good with that. Well, all it took was an example for her to follow, her confidence grew and then she used her own creative eye. And just like that she gained a new skill. And so can you. If you go to the store and stare at the flower section and can’t imagine something from nothing then simply take a look at the images and links below for some ideas. I know you can do it!

This might not be a typical Thanksgiving arrangement, but it screams fall. The big cabbage heads are fun and bold while the baby’s breathe fills in the gaps and adds whimsy.

Florals can be big and make a statement or a single flower with a simple burst of beauty. Whatever your style there is an arrangement for you. The first link is one that requires some planning, various size vases and a variety of floral items to pull off. But it’s worth it, and best part, it will last you through the fall season.

Fall Themed Centerpiece

There are floral examples in the Thanksgiving Table setting link above, but below are two more links for inspiration.

Eucalyptus Burst - A Floral Spray

Maybe you don’t want to break the bank on florals. Mums are ubiquitous, affordable and come in a variety of colors.

Mums…the Word

Napkin Folding

What can I say about napkins that won’t sound like I’m a broken record? Ok, hit the replay button. It doesn’t take much to make a napkin look a tad more special than just plopping in down on the table. Sure there are oodles of videos on how to make a turkey or pumpkin out of a napkin. If you have the time and wherewithal, knock yourself out. I’m all for simplicity with a touch of pizazz. The link below demonstrates 5 basic folds then gives a variety of ways to enhance each. Hope this helps convince you that it doesn’t take but a moment more to fold a napkin.

Napkin Folding - 5 Basic Folds - Countless Options

Maybe you don’t need a place setting or napkin folding ideas because you are hosting a less formal, more casual buffet style meal. Here’s an easy way to corral utensils with an item that we all have stuffed in the back of our cabinets. The ever present florist vase.

Florist Vase = Useful Utensil Holder

Appetizers

Now here is a category I can really sink my teeth into. Pun intended. I love being creative with apps. I feel like this is where you can break from tradition and be a bit more adventurous with your offerings. As a matter of fact, one Thanksgiving, JuanCarlos and I decided to turn the holiday on its head, literally. We made the appetizer portion the main attraction serving 12 different offerings ranging from cold to hot which lasted 3 hours. Then the main meal was much simpler, and didn’t even include turkey! Extending the appetizer ‘hour’ allowed our guests to relax, eat leisurely and mingle to their hearts’ content. I think it was our best hosted Thanksgiving ever. So with that in mind, here are some appetizers that might stray from the norm for this holiday. Pick one, pick them all. Go crazy, it’s meant to be appetizing.

Contrast colors and texture to excite the palate.

Amuse Bouche literally means to amuse the mouth. And that’s what your first offerings should do. They should get the palate ready. An announcement to: Start Your Engines. Below is a variety of ideas that do just that.

Amuse Bouche…That’s not English, Right?

Pickled Offerings: I love serving quality store bought pickled items such as mushrooms, garlic, cornichon. These add a tangy punch to get the palate ready for more.

Marinated mushrooms with roasted red peppers

Skewers: This idea might feel more summer time but it doesn’t have to be. You can have warm skewered items or cold. They are easy to pick up and eat. And the best part about some of the below examples is they use store bought items plus can be made ahead, plated and placed out when guests arrive.

Potatoes & Pulpo (octopus) Skewers with alioli dipping sauce. Quality canned octopus skewered with boiled new potatoes.

Romaine Lettuce wraps with tinned Spicy Sardine and Grape Tomato/Cucumber Skewers

Boquerones (fresh anchovies) on Cucumber Ribbons

Grilled Shrimp & Avocado Endive Boats with yogurt cucumber dip

Sautéd Potatoes & Pulpo with parsley dressing on Endive

Oven Roasted Plum Tomatoes with Fresh Ricotta topped with herbs & olive oil.

And then there is the infamous Charcuterie/Cheese Platter. Sometimes putting this together can feel overwhelming. We’ve all seen them and they look amazing. But how do we compose an appetizing platter? Sometimes a simple step by step and visual helps us to create what may seem daunting. Here are some guides from me and a link from another master, That Cheese Plate.

The Art of a Charcuterie & cheese Platter

You can never, and I mean NEVER, go wrong with serving a charcuterie/cheese platter. There is always something for everyone. The beauty of it is that you can arrange it with anything and everything. Make it an appetizer platter, like the one below, filled with a variety of flavors and textures.

Boqueron/olive/cucumber skewers, roasted red peppers, spiced nuts, asparagus baked in puffed pastry, palmiers all mingle nicely among cheese and dry cured meats.

Abundance. Fill the platter and block each item in sections. It makes it look organized and appetizing. You WANT to dive in.

And now for even more appetizer ideas…

Smoked Trout Cucumber Bites

Boquerones = Bow ka row nays

Luscious Butternut Cream Crostini with Roasted Walnuts & Honey

3 Dips a Dippin’

I love this one because it’s a different take on crudité. And the dips are so flavorful that will keep on dipping.

Marinated Feta

This dish is an absolute winner. My customers love it as much as my guests. It is so versatile, creamy and tangy, spicy and delicous.

Fried Polenta Topped with Mushrooms & Goat Cheese
These fried polenta rounds are also a great vehicle for the above marinated feta. I’ve often made that combo and had not a single one left.

5 Appetizers That Impress & Relieve Stress

Maybe you have the task of figuring out what to serve a vegan during a holiday that rarely has offerings that will suffice. Here’s an appetizer that is hearty, earthy and fits the vegan bill.

Vegan Chick Pea Mash

And for our last category, because I’m sure by now your tea has gotten cold or you’ve run out of scotch. Either way, it was a boat load of info. But this last section is much needed and short.

Salads

Ok, let’s admit it. We all make the effort and serve them up on Thanksgiving. But how many of your guests actually eat it? I say offer up a salad that counters all the heaviness of a traditional Turkey dinner. Crunchy, refreshing salads will be a palate and belly cleanser. Try any of these.

Citrus. Salad Bowl

Versatile Crunch Salad

Cucumber Ribbons, Chunks & Cherry Tomatoes

Use a vegetable peeler to create ribbons from an English cucumber. When you get to the middle section after peeling, cut it into chunks. Add halved cherry tomatoes and mix with a herb vinaigrette.

Ok, that’s it for now folks. I hope these helped you and provided some ideas. I wish you all a safe and joyous Thanksgiving. May we each find health through nutritious food and spiritual love. Gobble Gobble.

Entertaining - How I Miss It | Make Ahead Appetizers

Our Miami crew. How we love sharing time with them.

This has been a difficult year. And it’s certainly not over. Although statistics are improving, we are still grappling with the pandemic and its multitude of ripple effects on our lives. From the obvious life and death fears to struggling to stay employed to figuring out how to juggle Zoom calls with toddlers, it has been challenging. (Newsflash: I don’t have toddlers but can only imagine.)

There are so many issues relating to how our lives have been affected, but the one that seems to really hit most people at their emotional core is the isolation. The inability to freely move about and spend time with the ones we love. I know this has rocked me at my center. I miss hugging people. For those you know me, to say that I am a touchy, feely person is an understatement. Hey, not in a groping way, in a caring way. ( Alright, maybe I do want to see how big your biceps are.) It’s a known fact that human touch has healing qualities. Which highlights how counterintuitive it is to try to heal people through a pandemic without that essential restorative, mentally medicinal element. Ironic and heartbreaking, really. But I digress, or should I say wandered off the road a bit.

I miss people. I miss my family and friends, (or as we like to call them, framily) and the joy of sharing a meal and good time with them. JuanCarlos has joked about how much free time we now have during the weekends, since in his mind we used to spend every one of them hosting parties. Not true, and an over exaggeration . But true, entertaining is in my DNA. From as early as junior high and high school I can remember wanting to invite my friends over for a meal or to play games and enjoy snacks. I preferred it over going to a stale beer smelling bar, filled with billows of smoke, raucous noise and tons of other people with whom I didn’t care to share my time. What a nerd. That that nerd would grow up to enjoy entertaining as a later career shouldn’t come as such a surprise. But here we are, without the ability to do just that. Yet, as we learned from last post, I still found a way.

In all honesty, I’ve been struggling about which posts to launch since so many of them feature groups sharing food. To post them feels either disingenuous or taunting. I don’t want to be either. But as I rummaged through photos, rather than feeling sad and longing, I instead felt hope and anticipation. So, I’m posting this to put out the positive energy that this kind of gathering can resume soon. With that wish at hand, it seemed appropriate to provide some options for make ahead appetizer ideas for your future event. And so, lifting myself up by my house slippers, I’m sharing a moment when we gathered for a few nibbles with our dear friends in our Miami apartment. These handful of simple appetizers might be the perfect strategy to ease our way back into entertaining after a long reprieve.

Sometimes the best way to enjoy one another’s company is to make the food portion as easy and carefree as possible. Serving appetizers that can be enjoyed cold or room temperature allows the host(s) to remain with the party and not in the kitchen. Pre-made and/or ready to assembly right before guests arrive is the ideal way to have everything finished, and allow the fun and conversation from being interrupted. You know I love putting out a big spread. Whether it be a multi-course meal or tapas style, I’m known for my abundance. But there is a beauty to simplicity.
And that was the focus of this gathering several years back.

Skewers make it easy to grab and go.

And don’t forget the drink. It’s also important to have a partner that does their part in hosting. JuanCarlos is always at the ready serving up beverages. P.S. also one of my favorite shirts. It’s a party wrapped around a party!

Just because these were nibbles didn’t mean that it wasn’t substantial. On the contrary, it was filling and satisfying. Every one of these dishes were made ahead of time.

Cucumbers provide the cool and refreshing, grape tomatoes the sweet and the sardines bring the salt. An all in one bite.

Sardine Lettuce Wrap Skewers

Food that you can pick up and eat are perfect appetizers. Wraps fit that bill, so do skewers And this appetizer combines both.

Using a good quality Spanish sardine and some fresh, crisp veggies made this no cook appetizer fast to prepare and easy to enjoy. Spain is famous for its high quality conservas; fish in tins. One of my favorite brands is Cabo de Peñas. Simply skewer Persian cucumber* rounds, grape tomatoes. Then using romaine lettuce cut into 3” pieces, tuck a piece of the sardine in each creating a taco-like envelope to hold the sardine.

*Persian cucumbers are smaller and have less seeds and better for skewering. If you can’t find those, use English cucumbers and cut them smaller. If you can only find regular cucumbers, then scoop out the seeds, and cut them into small chunks.

Pulpo -Potato Skewers

Pulpo - Potato Skewers
Pulpo, Spanish for octopus, is one of those items that I always buy pre-cooked either in a tin or vacuumed sealed. Trust me, it’s delicious and SO much easier than cooking octopus. The Mediterranean countries are known for serving the most delicious octopus, so you can’t go wrong with any from Italy, Spain or Greece. I have two favorites: again , Cabo de Peñas in a tin and the vacuum sealed package from Don Bocarte*. (Even the famous NY Times writer Florence Fabricant agrees.)

To make, cut small new potatoes in half, boil until tender but not overdone or they will fall apart when trying to skewer them. Season with salt and pepper, then skewer them alternating between potato and octopus. Drizzle with good olive oil. It’s that simple.

*Please note that the Don Bocarte vacuum pack is only available at Despaña Soho store.

Shrimp & Avocado Endive Boats

Grill or sauté shrimp that have been seasoned with salt and pepper. Let cool, then cut them into small pieces. Cut avocado into small cubes, toss with shrimp and then spoon both into endive leaves. Make a quick creamy topping by combining either greek yogurt, sour cream or creme fraiche with finely chopped red onion and cucumber and a squeeze of lemon juice.

Room Temp Bean & Veg Salad

Sauté small cubed red/orange peppers, zucchini and summer squash with red onion in oil, salt and pepper. Make a quick vinaigrette of crushed garlic, lemon zest and juice, dried oregano and olive oil. Mix the sautéed vegetables together with chick peas, cannelini beans, and pour dressing over the entire mixture. Serve at room temperature. (Of course, this can also be served warm, but the point is to not have to be in the kitchen.)

3 Bean Salad with raw veggies. A slightly difference version offering a completely no cook option.

For a completely no cook version: use raw red/yellow peppers, grape tomatoes and cucumbers plus black beans and toss with an herb dressing. Replace the dried oregano with fresh parsley, cilantro and mint.

Bite sized cubes of salmon

Sear them in a cast iron pan.

Grilled Salmon

Cut salmon into 2” squares. Season with salt and pepper and using olive oil, sear in a cast iron pan. That’s all this needs, or maybe a squeeze of lemon right before serving. This can be made ahead, refrigerated and served either cold or room temp. The small cubes makes these much easier to eat and requires no utensils. Pick it and pop it in your mouth.

Is there anything better to please your guests than a platter full of dairy rich bites? I think not.

Cheese Platter
The ubiquitous cheese platter. It never gets old and it’s everyone’s favorite.

You know what to do here. Place a variety of cheeses on a platter and fill up and around with crackers, nuts, fruits and jams. Remember color blocking and keeping each element together to create focus and visual appeal. Too much scattering just creates visual clutter.

And just like that you have a hearty table of nibbles perfect for no kitchen distractions. I miss all my peeps and this post gave me hope and inspiration for the next time, hopefully soon, when we will all meet again, and be able to safely blow out candles on a cake.

Although this may seem like a similar shot, it’s important to include because we can see John’s face and it includes JuanCarlos.

WAY before the pandemic when no one thought twice about blowing onto to the top of a cake!

We miss our friends and we miss Miami. And we are counting the days until we can all do this again, safely and with tons of love and laughter.

To wrap up, here are a few visual reminders of the sunshine, sunsets and the pure glory of our second home, Miami, and a couple of other reasons why we miss it so much.

Our favorite spot on Miami Beach where we place our chairs and towels and hang for hours.

The view as we walk along the miles of Miami Beach boardwalk.

The stunning sunset from our apartment. You can see why we love to sit on our terrace and enjoy a cocktail.

Another one just because it’s so calming.

Eucalyptus Burst - A Floral Spray

It's been awhile since I have presented floral ideas.  Kinda makes me sad since I love flowers and love arranging them. Anyone who knows me, knows my obsession with flowers.  Fact is, I've been traveling around and have not been to the city much, therefore haven't visited my favorite NYC floral shop, Dahlia * in Grand Central Station.  Hence the lack of floral inspiration. But I happened upon an arrangement I created awhile back that I thought I would share.  My idea, if you don't have real flowers to look at, at least look at a pretty picture.  I am stretching it a bit?? Maybe.

This is not my usual color scheme, or theory on color, which is why I wanted to share it with you.  As I have often professed, I prefer to stick with a single color theme and vary the flower types, or when mixing colors stick to two of high contrast.  This arrangement does neither.  Go figure. Yet somehow it worked. Well, at least for me.

One of the leaves I really enjoy working with is eucalyptus.  But not the one with the highly intense aroma, and inflexible stem version. I like the leafy, droopy kind. Their branches are long and bit floppy which produces a huge spray that creates a wonderful backdrop for the florals.

After choosing the eucalyptus, for some reason I then selected three very different colors of 2 different flowers. 

• Deep Red and Yellow Alstroemeria

• Pale Pink Lysianthus

 A very odd day for me, apparently.  

Ready, set, arrange.

Often times when using eucalyptus branches I reach for a tall vase. (However, I have also arranged them in a long, low vessel to create a wide arrangement that was super dramatic.) 
Proportion is everything with flowers. This long tulip shaped vase was a wedding gift, and I adore it.  I usually add stones to lift the stems a bit. 

Decorative stones in the bottom help to lift the stems.

Tall and elegant, the wide mouth aids in creating a full boquet.

Once the branches are placed to create that spray, I started with the Lysianthus, placing them around knowing I would fill in with the other two flowers.

Grouping all the Lysianthus together creates a higher point of interest.

My thought was to color block since I had such varying colors.  I concentrated the pale pinks in the center, then surrounded them by the yellow Alstroemeria.  Since the deep red Alstroemeria had yellow in their centers, I surrounded the yellow flowers with the red.  

A burst of pure joy.

This turned out to be an interesting color palette, and one that seems to work due in part to keeping the same colors blocked together for the most part.  I also feel the reason it works is because the massive size and spray of eucalyptus.  The key aspect of flower arranging is do what brings a smile to your face, and a sense of peace when you see them. In this episode of creating floral joy, I chose a Eucalyptus Burst.

* I can't stress enough how I adore the flowers and service at Dahlia.  Their prices are always reasonable and the flowers durable.  If you go to the Grand Central location, ask for Simone.  She is the best.